{"id":126,"date":"2025-06-25T10:24:46","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T07:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/?p=126"},"modified":"2025-06-25T10:24:46","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T07:24:46","slug":"dostlar-uzerine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/?p=126","title":{"rendered":"Dostlar \u00dczerine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201cBir ki\u015fi daima fazlad\u0131r etraf\u0131mda<\/em>\u201d- b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr m\u00fcnzevi. \u201cHer zaman bir kere bir \u2013zamanla iki eder bu!<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ben ve kendim her zaman \u00e7ok ate\u015fliyizdir konu\u015furken nas\u0131l dayan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 bir dost olmasayd\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00fcnzevi i\u00e7in dost her zaman \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ki\u015fidir:  \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ki\u015fi, iki ki\u015finin konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n derinlerine dalmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyen mantard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ah, t\u00fcm m\u00fcnzeviler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok fazla derinlik vard\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden \u00f6zlem duyarlar bir dosta ve onun y\u00fcksekli\u011fine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na duydu\u011fumuz inan\u00e7 kendimizde neye inanmak istedi\u011fimizi ele verir. Bir dosta duydu\u011fumuz \u00f6zlemdir i\u00e7imizdeki hain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sevgiyle sadece hasedin \u00fcst\u00fcnden atlamak isteriz. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman sald\u0131r\u0131ya ge\u00e7er ve bir d\u00fc\u015fman yarat\u0131r\u0131z kendimize, sald\u0131r\u0131ya a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fumuz gizlemek i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEn az\u0131ndan d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131m ol!\u201d- <\/em>b\u00f6yle konu\u015fur hakiki sayg\u0131, dostluk istemeye yeltenmeyen sayg\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan bir dostu olsun istiyorsa onun i\u00e7in sava\u015fmak da istemelidir: ve sava\u015fmak i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015fman da olabilmelidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan dostunu da d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n\u0131 da onurland\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onun taraf\u0131na ge\u00e7meden yakla\u015fabilir misin dostuna?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dostu en iyi d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 olmal\u0131 insan\u0131n. Ona kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onun y\u00fcre\u011fine en yak\u0131n sen olmal\u0131s\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dostlar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na giyinmeden mi \u00e7\u0131kmak istiyorsun? Kendini ona oldu\u011fu gibi g\u00f6stermekle mi onurland\u0131racaks\u0131n dostunu? Ama bu y\u00fczden lanetliyor o seni!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendini gizlemeyen, \u00f6fkelendirir: bu kadar \u00e7ok nedeniniz var \u00e7\u0131plakl\u0131ktan korkmak i\u00e7in! Evet, birer tanr\u0131 olsayd\u0131n\u0131z, utanabilirdiniz giysilerinizden!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dostun i\u00e7in yeterince s\u00fcsleyemezsin kendini: \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00dcstinsana y\u00f6nelen bir ok bir \u00f6zlem olmal\u0131s\u0131n onun i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uyurken g\u00f6rd\u00fcn m\u00fc hi\u00e7 dostunu, -anlayas\u0131n diye onun nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc?  Ba\u015fka nedir ki dostunun y\u00fcz\u00fc? Senin kendi y\u00fcz\u00fcnd\u00fcr o, kaba ve kusurlu bir aynada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uyurken g\u00f6rd\u00fcn m\u00fc hi\u00e7 dostunu? Deh\u015fete kap\u0131lmad\u0131n m\u0131 dostunun bu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcnden? Ey dostum, a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir \u015feydir insan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sezmekte ve susmakta usta olmal\u0131 dost: her \u015feyi g\u00f6rmek istememelisin. R\u00fcyalar\u0131n bildirmeli sana dostunun uyan\u0131kken neler yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sezmek olsun senin merhametin: merhamet istiyor mu dostun, \u00f6nce bunu bilesin diye? Belki de \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131l\u0131 g\u00f6zlerini ve g\u00f6zlerindeki sonsuzluk bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 seviyor sende.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dostuna merhametin sert bir kabu\u011fun alt\u0131na gizlensin, bir di\u015fini k\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n bu kabuk y\u00fcz\u00fcnden. Ancak b\u00f6yle incelik ve lezzet kazan\u0131r o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Temiz hava ve yaln\u0131zl\u0131k ve ekmek ve ila\u00e7 m\u0131s\u0131n dostun i\u00e7in? Kimileri \u00e7\u00f6zemez zincirlerini, ama yine de kurtar\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r bir dost i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bir k\u00f6le misin? O halde dost olamazs\u0131n. Bir tiran m\u0131s\u0131n? O halde dostlar\u0131n olamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7ok uzun s\u00fcredir bir k\u00f6le ve bir tiran gizliydi kad\u0131nda. Bu y\u00fczden kad\u0131n hen\u00fcz yatk\u0131n de\u011fildir dostlu\u011fa: sadece a\u015fk\u0131 bilir o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sevmedi\u011fi her \u015feye kar\u015f\u0131 adaletsizlik ve k\u00f6rl\u00fck vard\u0131r kad\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131nda. Kad\u0131n\u0131n bilin\u00e7li a\u015fk\u0131nda bile hala f\u0131rt\u0131na ve y\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131m ve gece vard\u0131r \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131n hen\u00fcz yatk\u0131n de\u011fildir dostlu\u011fa: kad\u0131n halen kedidir, ku\u015ftur. Ya da olsa olsa inektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131n hen\u00fcz yatk\u0131n de\u011fildir dostlu\u011fa. Ama s\u00f6yleyin bana siz erkeler hanginiz yatk\u0131ns\u0131n\u0131z ki dostlu\u011fa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ah erkekler, sizin yoksullu\u011funuz ve ruhunuzun cimrili\u011fi! Sizin dostlar\u0131n\u0131za verdi\u011finiz kadar\u0131n\u0131 ben d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131ma veririm. Ve yoksul d\u00fc\u015fmem bu y\u00fczden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arkada\u015fl\u0131k;  var dostluk olsun! B\u00f6yle buyurdu Zerd\u00fc\u015ft    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Freidrich Nietzsche<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201cBir ki\u015fi daima fazlad\u0131r etraf\u0131mda\u201d- b\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr m\u00fcnzevi. \u201cHer zaman bir kere bir \u2013zamanla iki eder bu!\u201d Ben ve kendim her zaman \u00e7ok ate\u015fliyizdir konu\u015furken nas\u0131l dayan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 bir dost olmasayd\u0131? M\u00fcnzevi i\u00e7in dost her zaman \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ki\u015fidir:  \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ki\u015fi, iki ki\u015finin konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n derinlerine dalmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyen mantard\u0131r. Ah, t\u00fcm m\u00fcnzeviler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok fazla derinlik vard\u0131r. Bu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=126"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":129,"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126\/revisions\/129"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=126"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=126"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sentisaudade.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=126"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}